
The Good Girl... 74/90
‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind;’ and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’
‘Who is my neighbor?’
I love my sister, Janel and best friend Jenny, the other J’s in our group J3… I love how they let me be myself… demanding nothing in return… we understand each other without words… we learn from each others mistakes… we are changed forever by each own's generosity, love and good deeds…
I used to be very untrusting and skeptical of people… especially strangers, homeless, gangsters, shady characters per se… I recall hearing this story that impacted me…
“A man was sitting outside of our church on one cold wintry Sunday morning… all of the people were scurrying to get inside the warm sanctuary for Sunday church services… the man outside was dressed in ragged clothes… appeared to be very dirty… he was sitting on the ground with his back against the church clutching his legs, head down hovering over his knees… he was cold, alone and quiet… people passed by him… some looked away, pretending not to notice him… some, walked out of the path to avoid him and not get too close… some looked down at him in sadness… but not one of them offered to help him, give him money… and not one person asked him to come inside, get out of the cold and invite him to join in the church service!
All the folks were seated in the church pews awaiting the pastor’s arrival from the pulpit… Then much to their surprise… the homeless man, head down, walked into the church and down the church isle… Everyone watched as he made his way to the front of the church, stopped and turned around… He lifted his head, took off his tattered coat and to everyone’s dismay… there stood before them… their pastor…"
Would you have offered to help the bum?
Would you have invited him into the church, and out of the cold?
Would you have offered him money or clothes to keep warm?
I don’t know what I would have done at the time I first listened to this story… but now, I certainly would… however… my friend Jenny would have helped him… she is naturally like this… a good Samaritan… I love that about her!!!
Jenny befriended a man in our church who was very warn and shady… he was quite, introverted, dirty and strange… he would come to listen to our band practice at the church on Thursday nights… I remember my ex-husband always telling me to stay away from that man… “He could be a serial killer,” he would say… and truthfully, I did find him repulsive… Jenny didn’t… she took him in under her wing… became a friend… his only friend… cut his dirty long scraggly hair… cleaned him up, and gave him the gift of pure love and friendship… I admire her for this… over the years this gentleman has become one of our greatest supporters of our band… he is kind and sincere… Jenny gave him something that no one else did… “hope!”
Then again… the beggars on the street… we were in Nashville on one of our earlier visits to the music city… and we passed a beggar… he was asking for money… I was quick to say, “just keep walking…” he was dirty and unapproachable… Jenny stopped, dug through her purse and handed him some cash…
Again! Humbled by her grace… kindness… goodness…
These actions have changed my life… I am no longer the one that just passes by and ignores the cries of the oppressed… I try to help when I can… I am aware of my surroundings… and my impact on others… wouldn’t this world be so much better if more of us offered a hand once in a while… instead of walking on by…
“Do not judge, and you will not be judged.
Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned.
Forgive, and you will be forgiven.
Give, and it will be given to you.“
The Good Samaritan
“A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he fell into the hands of robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two denarii5 and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’ “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?” The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.” Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”
The Golden Rule
“Do to others as you would have them do to you.“
Pay it forward…
Love wins.
- j. marshon